My husband does a lot of cleaning…I do not.
This is the pattern our relationship has pretty much followed, and although it drives him crazy, and sometimes he nags and nags at me to help out, which is fair enough although I maintain that we split chores pretty much equally in other ways.
Anyway the point of my tale is not our own domestic arrangements, but the peril of staying with your inlaws. There’s no secret where the Turk gets his cleaning habits from, Mummy Turk has been a housewife since around the age of 16 and between raising four kids spends the other hours in the day cleaning. I’m limiting it to cleaning because I feel the Turks and me disagree on what tidying is (it’s actually putting stuff away not simply piling it all into a heap in a corner and then telling me that this is my pile to sort through…it’s definitely not tidying).
Mummy Turk cleans all the floors in their flat (on her hands and knees) every week, vacuuming is daily, windows at least once a week, curtains every month and all carpets are removable so that they can be sent to be cleaned twice a year (and after visitors). It’s not just the family Turk, I think it’s all Turks….
Everything is ironed…everything (towels – why – it stops them being fluffy). All white washing is bleached to ensure it stays white so that the neighbours are impressed when you hang them out of the window to dry (I’m not joking, this is the actual reason I was given).
Again I digress. We
always frequently stay with family when in Turkey and this leaves me with a dilemma, technically when we go to Turkey we are on our only ever holiday. So, do I help with the cleaning? Part of me feels I should – but she’d be cleaning anyway…
I guess we do cause more cleaning by the very nature of being there, but it is my HOLIDAY…
Just something I think about every so often!